| # | Activity | Experience Before |
Giver/Receiver | Willingness |
Notes & Nuances |
|---|
| 1 | Abrasion | yes | bottom | 5 | Either or |
| 2 | Age play | No | bottom | no | Being a baby is not my thing. Any other suggestions, I'm open. |
| 3 | Anal sex | yes | bottom | 5 | Top, bottom, who cares? |
| 4 | Anal plugs (small) | yes | bottom | 5 | Ditto |
| 5 | Anal plugs (large) | yes | bottom | 5 | Ditto |
| 6 | Anal plug (public, under clothes) | yes | bottom | 5 | Ditto |
| 7 | Animal roles | No | bottom | 2 | Er, I guess? I'll have to see it first. |
| 8 | Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) | yes | bottom | 5 | Yes please. |
| 9 | Aromas | No | bottom | no | |
| 10 | Asphyxiation | yes | bottom | 5 | Sign me up. |
| 11 | Auctioned for charity | yes | bottom | 5 | I'd better be expensive |
| 12 | Ball stretching | yes | bottom | 3 | |
| 13 | Bathroom use control | yes | bottom | 1 | |
| 14 | Beastiality | No | top | no | |
| 15 | Beating (soft) | yes | bottom | 5 | Both ways |
| 16 | Beating (hard) | yes | bottom | 5 | Both ways |
| 17 | Blindfolds | yes | bottom | 5 | Mmmhmmm |
| 18 | Being serviced (sexual) | yes | top | 5 | Either or |
| 19 | Being bitten | yes | bottom | 5 | Ditto |
| 20 | Boot worship | yes | bottom | 5 | Ditto |
| 21 | Bondage (light) | yes | bottom | 5 | Ditto |
| 22 | Bondage (heavy) | yes | bottom | 5 | Ditto |
| 23 | Bondage (multi-day) | yes | bottom | 5 | Ditto |
| 24 | Bondage (public, under clothing) | yes | bottom | 5 | Ditto |
| 25 | Branding | yes | bottom | 3 | |
| 26 | Breast/chest bondage | No | bottom | no | |
| 27 | Breast whipping | No | bottom | no | |
| 28 | Breath control | yes | bottom | 5 | Yep. |
| 29 | Brown showers (scat) | No | bottom | no | |
| 30 | Bruises | yes | bottom | 5 | Mark me. I'll take photos |
| 31 | Cages (locked inside of) | yes | bottom | 3 | |
| 32 | Caning | yes | bottom | 5 | Harks back to my public school days |
| 33 | Castration fantasy | No | bottom | no | |
| 34 | Catheterization | No | bottom | no | |
| 35 | Cattle prod (electrical toy) | No | bottom | no | ...that's for large bulls, correct? I don't feel like dying today. |
| 36 | Cells/Closets (locked inside of) | yes | bottom | 4 | |
| 37 | Chains | yes | bottom | 5 | Bring it. |
| 38 | Chamber-pot use | No | bottom | 2 | |
| 39 | Chastity belts (short term) | yes | | 3 | |
| 40 | Chastity belts (multi-day) | No | | 1 | |
| 41 | Chauffeuring (driving) | No | | 1 | |
| 42 | Choking | yes | bottom | 5 | Yesplease. |
| 43 | Chores (domestic service) | yes | bottom | 1 | |
| 44 | Clothespins | yes | bottom | 3 | |
| 45 | Cock rings/straps | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 46 | Cock worship | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 47 | Collars (worn in private) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 48 | Collars (worn in public) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 49 | Competitions (with other Subs) | yes | bottom | 5 | I'll win |
| 50 | Corsets (wearing casually) | yes | bottom | 3 | |
| 51 | Corsets (trained waist reduction) | No | bottom | 1 | |
| 52 | Cross-dressing | yes | bottom | 4 | I make a beautiful woman |
| 53 | Cuffs (leather) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 54 | Cuffs (metal) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 55 | Cutting | yes | bottom | 3 | |
| 56 | Diapers (wearing) | No | bottom | 0 | |
| 57 | Diapers (wetting) | No | bottom | 0 | |
| 58 | Diapers (soiling) | No | bottom | 0 | |
| 59 | Dilation | No | bottom | no | |
| 60 | Dildoes | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 61 | Double penetration | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 62 | Electricity | yes | bottom | 3 | |
| 63 | Enemas (for cleansing) | No | bottom | 0 | |
| 64 | Enemas (retention/punishment) | No | | 0 | |
| 65 | Enforced chastity | yes | bottom | 1 | |
| 66 | Erotic dance (for audience) | yes | bottom | 3 | |
| 67 | Examinations (physical) | yes | bottom | 3 | |
| 68 | Exercise (forced/required) | No | bottom | 2 | |
| 69 | Exhibitionism (friends) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 70 | Exhibitionism (strangers) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 71 | Eye contact restrictions | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 72 | Face slapping | yes | bottom | 5 | Try not to cut the eye, would you? |
| 73 | Fantasy abandonment | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 74 | Fantasy rape | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 75 | Fantasy gang-rape | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 76 | Fear (being scared) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 77 | Fisting (anal) | yes | bottom | 4 | |
| 78 | Fisting (vaginal) | No | bottom | no | |
| 79 | Flame play | yes | bottom | 3 | |
| 80 | Following orders | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 81 | Food play (cucumbers, sorbet...) | yes | bottom | 3 | |
| 82 | Foot worship | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 83 | Forced bedwetting | No | bottom | no | |
| 84 | Forced dressing | No | bottom | no | |
| 85 | Forced eating | No | bottom | no | |
| 86 | Forced homosexuality | No | bottom | no | |
| 87 | Forced heterosexuality | No | bottom | no | |
| 88 | Forced masturbation | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 89 | Forced nudity (private) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 90 | Forced nudity (around others) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 91 | Forced servitude | yes | bottom | 4 | |
| 92 | Forced smoking | yes | bottom | 4 | |
| 93 | Full head hoods | No | bottom | 2 | |
| 94 | Gags (cloth) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 95 | Gags (inflatable) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 96 | Gags (phallic) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 97 | Gags (rubber) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 98 | Gags (tape) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 99 | Gas masks | No | bottom | 2 | |
| 100 | Gates of Hell (male) | No | bottom | 4 | |
| 101 | Genital sex | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 102 | Given away to another Dom (temp) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 103 | Given away to another Dom (perm) | No | bottom | 3 | |
| 104 | Golden showers | yes | bottom | 2 | |
| 105 | Gun play | No | bottom | 3 | |
| 106 | Hairbrush spankings | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 107 | Hair pulling | yes | | 3 | I like my hair, ok? |
| 108 | Hand jobs (giving) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 109 | Hand jobs (receiving) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 110 | Harems (serving w/other subs) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 111 | Harnessing (leather) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 112 | Harnessing (rope) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 113 | Having food chosen for you | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 114 | Having clothing chosen for you | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 115 | Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 116 | Head (recv fellatio/cunnilingus) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 117 | High heel wearing | yes | bottom | 4 | |
| 118 | High heel worship | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 119 | Homage with tongue (non-sexual) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 120 | Hoods | No | bottom | 2 | |
| 121 | Hot oils (on genitals) | yes | bottom | 4 | |
| 122 | Hot waxing | yes | bottom | 5 | I work in fashion, for chrissake, I’m used to this. |
| 123 | Housework (doing) | No | bottom | 2 | |
| 124 | Human puppy dog | No | bottom | 2 | |
| 125 | Humiliation (private) | yes | bottom | 4 | |
| 126 | Humiliation (public) | yes | bottom | 3 | |
| 127 | Hypnotism | No | bottom | 3 | |
| 128 | Ice cubes | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 129 | Immobilization | yes | | 4 | |
| 130 | Infantilism | No | bottom | 0 | |
| 131 | Initiation rites | No | bottom | 3 | |
| 132 | Injections | No | bottom | no | |
| 133 | Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 134 | Interrogations | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 135 | Kidnaping | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 136 | Kneeling | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 137 | Knife play | yes | bottom | 4 | |
| 138 | Leather clothing | yes | bottom | 5 | Again, fashion. |
| 139 | Leather restraints | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 140 | Lectures for misbehavior | yes | bottom | 5 | Ooooh, matron. |
| 141 | Licking (non-sexual) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 142 | Lingerie (wearing) | yes | bottom | 3 | |
| 143 | Manacles & Irons | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 144 | Manicures (giving) | No | bottom | 3 | |
| 145 | Massage (giving) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 146 | Massage (receiving) | yes | | 5 | |
| 147 | Medical scenes | No | bottom | 2 | |
| 148 | Modeling for erotic photos | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 149 | Mouth bits | yes | bottom | 3 | |
| 150 | Mummification | No | bottom | 2 | |
| 151 | Name change (for scene) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 152 | Name change (legal, permanent) | No | bottom | no | |
| 153 | Nipple clamps | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 154 | Nipple rings (piercings) | No | bottom | 1 | |
| 155 | Nipple play/ | yes | bottom | 4 | |
| 156 | Nipple weights | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 157 | Oral/anal play (rimming) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 158 | Over-the-knee spanking | yes | bottom | 5 | I've been a very naughty boy. |
| 159 | Orgasm denial | yes | bottom | 3 | |
| 160 | Orgasm control | yes | bottom | 4 | |
| 161 | Outdoor scenes | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 162 | Outdoor sex | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 163 | Pain (mild) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 164 | Pain (medium) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 165 | Pain (severe) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 166 | Persona training (in scene) | yes | bottom | 4 | |
| 167 | Personality modification (RL) | No | bottom | 2 | |
| 168 | Phone sex (serving Dom) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 169 | Phone sex (serving Dom's friends) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 170 | Phone sex (commercial provider) | No | bottom | 3 | |
| 171 | Piercing (temporary, play-pierce) | No | bottom | 4 | |
| 172 | Piercing (permanent) | No | bottom | 1 | |
| 173 | Plastic surgery | No | bottom | no | Why change perfection? |
| 174 | Prison scenes | No | bottom | 3 | |
| 175 | Prostitution (public pretense) | No | bottom | 5 | |
| 176 | Prostitution (actual) | No | bottom | 2 | |
| 177 | Pony slave | No | bottom | 3 | |
| 178 | Public exposure | No | bottom | 4 | |
| 179 | Punishment Scene | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 180 | Pussy/cock whipping | No | bottom | 3 | |
| 181 | Pussy worship | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 182 | Riding crops | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 183 | Riding the | No | bottom | no | |
| 184 | Rituals | No | bottom | 2 | |
| 185 | Religious scenes | No | bottom | 3 | |
| 186 | Restrictive rules on behavior | No | bottom | 3 | |
| 187 | Rubber/latex clothing | yes | bottom | 3 | |
| 188 | Rope body harness | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 189 | Saran wrapping | No | bottom | 2 | |
| 190 | Scarification | No | bottom | 0 | |
| 191 | Scratching - getting | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 192 | Scratching - giving | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 193 | Sensory deprivation | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 194 | Serving | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 195 | Serving as art | No | bottom | 2 | |
| 196 | Serving as ashtray | No | bottom | no | |
| 197 | Serving as furniture | No | bottom | 4 | |
| 198 | Serving as a maid | No | bottom | 2 | |
| 199 | Serving as toilet (urine) | No | bottom | 3 | |
| 200 | Serving as toilet (feces) | No | bottom | no | |
| 201 | Serving as waitress/waiter | No | bottom | 2 | |
| 202 | Serving orally (sexual) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 203 | Serving other doms (supervised) | No | bottom | 5 | |
| 204 | Serving other doms (unsupervised) | No | bottom | 5 | |
| 205 | Sexual deprivation (short term) | yes | bottom | 3 | |
| 206 | Sexual deprivation (long term) | No | bottom | 2 | |
| 207 | Shaving (body hair) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 208 | Shaving (genital hair) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 209 | Shaving (head hair) | yes | bottom | 1 | |
| 210 | Skinny-dipping | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 211 | Sleep deprivation | No | bottom | 2 | |
| 212 | Sleepsacks | No | bottom | 1 | |
| 213 | Slutty clothing (private) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 214 | Slutty clothing (public) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 215 | Spandex clothing | No | bottom | 5 | There are some things I just won't do. |
| 216 | Spanking | yes | bottom | 5 | Oh yes |
| 217 | Speech restrictions (when, what) | No | bottom | 3 | |
| 218 | Speculums (Anal) | No | bottom | 1 | |
| 219 | Speculums (vaginal) | No | bottom | no | |
| 220 | Spitting | No | bottom | 4 | |
| 221 | Spreader bars | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 222 | Standing in corner | No | bottom | 5 | |
| 223 | Stocks | No | bottom | 3 | |
| 224 | Straight jackets | yes | bottom | 4 | |
| 225 | Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) | No | bottom | 5 | |
| 226 | Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) | No | bottom | 5 | |
| 227 | Strap-on-dildos (wearing) | No | bottom | no | I have a natural one and it's great. |
| 228 | Strapping (full body beating) | No | bottom | 3 | |
| 229 | Suspension (upright) | No | bottom | 5 | |
| 230 | Suspension (inverted) | No | bottom | 3 | |
| 231 | Suspension (horizontal) | No | bottom | 4 | |
| 232 | Supplying new partners for Dom | No | bottom | 5 | |
| 233 | Swallowing feces | No | bottom | no | |
| 234 | Swallowing semen | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 235 | Swallowing urine | No | bottom | 3 | |
| 236 | Swapping (with one other couple) | No | bottom | 5 | |
| 237 | Swinging (multiple couples) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 238 | Tampon Training (in ass) | No | bottom | no | |
| 239 | Tattooing | No | bottom | 2 | |
| 240 | Teasing | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 241 | TENS Unit (electrical toy) | No | bottom | 4 | |
| 242 | Thumbcuffs (metal) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 243 | Tickling | yes | bottom | 3 | |
| 244 | Triple penetration | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 245 | Urethral Sounds (metal rods) | No | bottom | no | |
| 246 | Uniforms | yes | bottom | 3 | |
| 247 | Including others | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 248 | Vaginal dildo | No | bottom | no | |
| 249 | Verbal humiliation | No | bottom | 3 | |
| 250 | Vibrator on genitals | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 251 | Violet Wand (electrical toy) | yes | bottom | 4 | |
| 252 | Voyeurism (watching others) | yes | bottom | 5 | I love watching, I love to be watched |
| 253 | Voyeurism (your Dom w/others) | yes | bottom | 5 | I love watching, I love to be watched |
| 254 | Video (watching others) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 255 | Video (recordings of you) | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 256 | Water torture | No | bottom | 1 | |
| 257 | Waxing (hair removal) | No | bottom | 3 | |
| 258 | Wearing symbolic jewelry | yes | bottom | 2 | |
| 259 | Weight gain (forced) | No | bottom | no | |
| 260 | Weight loss (forced) | No | bottom | no | |
| 261 | Whipping | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 262 | Wooden paddles | yes | bottom | 5 | |
| 263 | Wrestling | No | bottom | 2 | |